So you want to date Bridget...

This post is about 13 20 years too early, but after my delightful little lunch date** with Bridget on Friday, I thought I should set some ground rules that are not likely to change before then.


1. Hold her hand. She's a lot of fun to hold hands with.  Plus, as you stroll along, you'll definitely want everyone to know she's with you.

2. Treat her to whatever she wants to eat. She'll surprise you with some quirky choices, and then savor every bite...at her own pace. Build in time in your date for this excruciatingly slow activity.



3. Be prepared for some sweet conversation, but don't be offended if she spends the majority of the meal not-so-subtly people-watching. And don't blame her --- this is an unfortunate genetic malady she inherits from her mother.

4. Take her shopping. She will want everything, most notably shoes, jewelry and accessories. Humor her and tell her she may get these items for Christmas. Although, if you're smart, you'll get her whatever she wants, whenever she wants it. (I am not smart at all, incidentally.)




5. Give her a kiss and promise to take her out again. If you know what's good for you, you won't keep her waiting for the next date.

**Our lunch date was a surprise for little Bridget when I picked her up from preschool. Matt had the twins, Megan was still at school, and we were chaperoned by Mary sleeping in her sling. I loved every minute of this one-on-one time with her, and it's something I'm determined to schedule for all of the girls now!

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